Money, Power & Practical Systems
I’m welcoming back one of your favorite guests and one of mine, divorce mortgage specialist Tami Wollensak, because we need to talk about the house. Specifically… what actually happens to it in divorce and what your real options are. Mortgage rules have shifted, interest rates have changed, and the questions I hear from clients all the time still come back […]
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When you tell your partner you want a divorce and suddenly they promise everything, how do you know if it’s real desire to change or just panic talking? You may be hearing apologies that sound deeper than anything you’ve heard before, promises of therapy, and urgent requests for time, all while you’re stuck questioning yourself. Is this real? Is it […]
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Divorce can become significantly more complicated when culture, immigration status, or international law are part of the equation. I’m joined by family law attorney Diana Romanov for a conversation about what happens when divorce crosses cultural and international lines. Diana brings a rare perspective to this work, shaped by her own immigration journey, her legal training, and practice across multiple […]
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Money, Power & Practical Systems
Many women are grieving two things at once right now, a relationship that didn’t protect them and a country that won’t either. There is a lot happening in the world right now, and none of it is abstract. Not for women. Not for our marriages, our divorces, our bodies, our safety, or our credibility. What we are witnessing is the […]
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High-Conflict & Coercive Control
When you’re living inside an abusive relationship, one of the hardest things to do is see the pattern clearly while you’re still in it. Everything feels confusing and destabilizing, especially when blame shifting, gaslighting, and constantly moving goalposts are part of the dynamic. That’s why I’m so grateful to welcome back Anne Wintemute, CEO and Co-Founder of Aimee Says, an […]
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It’s January, and you’ve made the decision to get divorced. The question now isn’t whether you’re moving forward. It’s how. This is the phase that requires strategy, not emotion. Not because your emotions don’t matter. They do. But right now, clear thinking matters more than anything else. In this solo episode, I share three things to help you formulate your […]
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Money, Power & Practical Systems
If you’re going through divorce and feeling overwhelmed by the financial decisions in front of you, you are not imagining it. There is far more to divorce financial planning than most people are ever told. Divorce creates financial challenges that most traditional financial advisors simply are not trained to handle, which is why I invited Jamie Lima, a Certified Divorce […]
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New Year’s Day comes with a lot of pressure to reinvent yourself, get clear, and have a plan. In this solo episode, I’m talking about why you don’t need any of that today. January 1st doesn’t have to be a test, a turning point, or proof that you’re doing life “right,” especially if you’re coming out of divorce, separation, or […]
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Christmas comes with a lot of expectations about how it’s supposed to look and feel, and in this solo episode, I’m talking about what happens when your life doesn’t match that script. You’ll hear why there is no correct way to feel today and how to let this day be exactly what it is without judging yourself or trying to […]
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Mediation can feel confusing, intimidating, and wildly misunderstood, especially when you’re being told you “don’t need a lawyer” because you’re mediating.” That’s exactly why I invited my good friend and colleague Susan Guthrie back to the show. Susan is going to help break down what mediation actually is, how it works, and how to protect yourself in the process. Susan […]
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