Private Coaching

Wondering if you should stay or go – and what (on earth) to do once you’ve made that decision? You’ve come to the right place, my love.

As a private divorce coach, I help women all over the world determine whether they should stay or go, and navigate divorce processes.

As one of the pioneers of the divorce coaching industry, I have a deep level of understanding and experience when it comes to the psychological and emotional aspects of the divorce and discernment processes.

Private coaching is fully customized to your needs, so whether you’re getting divorced, already divorced, or trying to decide whether to stay or go, I can help.

“Having Kate to help me navigate the pain in this process was EXACTLY what I needed. She is trained to do this. She is brilliant. She is an expert. She will hold your hand during one of the most important decisions you will make in your life and empower you to live your best life. I am forever grateful.”

- HM

All of my private coaching is fully customized to your needs, so whether you’re getting divorced, already divorced, or trying to decide whether to stay or go, I can help.

areas of expertise:

  • “Should I stay or should I go?” Helping you make the most difficult decision of your life by digging deeply into your relationship, healing from your past, and creating a solid — and clear — vision for your future.
  • Uncovering and healing from emotional abuse. Understanding emotional abuse is a huge part of the work I do with women, and I can promise there is hope for a much brighter future. I will get you there!
  • Creating concrete co-parenting plans that put your children at the center — never in the middle — of all your decisions.
  • Communication at every stage, including creating scripts for the difficult conversations you’ve been avoiding like the plague.
  • Divorce recovery and starting over. I work with women who are on the other side of their divorce, yet still reeling from the experience, or having trouble moving forward. Sometimes there’s grief recovery work to be done, sometimes there are shattered pieces to pick up, and sometimes there’s a new life to create and plan for.


All of my coaching is done by phone or on Zoom so no matter where you are in the world, we can work together! 

“Working with Kate has been so amazing. In the span of 2 months I went from truly not understanding WHY my relationship was failing to being able to identify the reasons, the traumas behind it and be confident in knowing what I deserve and asking for it. The investment was for me and saved me many more months of struggling with this decision. ”

- lg


Set up a consult by clicking the button below. We’ll spend 30 minutes on the phone getting better acquainted. I’ll ask you some questions, you’ll ask me some questions and through our call we’ll determine the best course of action for you.

The coach/client relationship is deep and sacred and, as such, I only accept clients I know I can help. If we both feel that private coaching is the best option for your growth and I truly believe I can help you on your journey, I’ll invite you to enter into a private coaching agreement with me.

OUR private coaching agreement includes:

  • 12 one-hour private coaching calls. Ideally these happen once a week, but life happens and sometimes we have to skip a week or two. That’s fine, but the design is for our work to be done consistently and consecutively.
  • Access to my private calendar to book your coaching calls (I coach privately on Tuesdays and Wednesdays  between 8am and 6pm PST).
  • Access to me via email or Voxer between sessions for extra support, accountability, or general questions (coaching cannot be done between coaching sessions).
  • Access to my vast library of videos, audios, worksheets, and resources specifically designed for your growth and evolution. Your homework between sessions will be drawn from this library.
  • An unrelenting champion of your incredible greatness, a knowledgable resource in the areas of separation, co-parenting, and divorce, and a lifetime coach you can return to time and time again.
  • Access to my client-only community on Facebook. This group is priceless, as it’s full of women who are all doing this work, either privately or in my programs. The support there is immeasurable.

At the end of our agreement, you will have access to Sanity Saver Sessions, which are drop-in sessions available to past clients only.