Divorce Strategy Toolkit

Divorce comes with a thousand decisions no one teaches you how to make.

The Divorce Strategy Toolkit gives you the practical guides, worksheets, scripts, checklists, and planning tools you need to prepare for the legal, financial, parenting, and emotional realities of divorce — especially when the situation is high-conflict.

35+ resources + The Divorce Strategy Planner
One-time purchase: $97

The Toolkit

You shouldn’t have to figure all of this out from scratch.

How do you tell your husband you want a divorce?

What financial documents should you gather before he knows you’re leaving?

How do you choose an attorney — and then actually work with them effectively?

What belongs in a parenting plan?

How do you document abuse or high-conflict behavior in a way that’s useful to your attorney?

What should you expect at mediation?

How do you communicate with someone who turns every conversation into a fight?

These are the questions women bring to me every day.

The Divorce Strategy Toolkit gives you the same kinds of resources I use with coaching clients to help you prepare before the crisis, organize what matters, and make more informed decisions as your divorce unfolds.

Whether you’re preparing for divorce or already in the middle of it, these resources help you make more informed decisions, prepare strategically, and move through the process with less guesswork.

What’s Included

For a one-time investment of $97, you’ll receive instant access to a growing library of over 35 practical resources, including:

Legal Strategy

Prepare for the legal process before you’re sitting across from your attorney trying to remember everything you meant to ask.

Includes:

Divorce Mediation: What to Expect and How to Prepare
Mediation Prep Worksheet
Divorce Order of Operations
Questions to Ask When Interviewing an Attorney

Financial Preparation

Know what you need to gather, understand, and organize before financial decisions start being made.

Includes:

Financial Documents Checklist
Financial Documents Worksheet
Divorce Budget Worksheet
CDFA recommendations

Kids + Parenting

Think through the real-life details of parenting across two homes — not just the custody percentage.

Includes:

How to Tell Your Kids You’re Getting a Divorce
Creating a Comprehensive Parenting Plan
Sample 50/50 Custody Schedules
Nesting Agreement

High-Conflict Divorce + Abuse

Tools specifically designed for situations where ordinary “just communicate better” divorce advice isn’t going to cut it.

Includes:

Best Practices for Documenting During Divorce and Custody Disputes
Creating a Safety Plan
Identifying Emotional Abuse
Drop the Rope: 20 Phrases to Disengage From Conflict
Worksheet for Assessing Change

Communication

Scripts and tools for some of the conversations you may be dreading most.

Includes:

How to Tell Your Husband You Want a Divorce
Deciding Whom to Tell and What You’ll Say
Communication Skills Practice Prompts
Assessing Change
How He’ll Likely React Bingo Card

Emotional + Recovery

Because knowing what to file with the court doesn’t mean your nervous system got the memo.

Includes:

The Daily Nervous System Reset
Processing Relationship Grief
Kate’s Top Tips for Getting Through Divorce
Healthy Relationship Checklist
Values Exercises
Inner Critic work
Inner Guide exercises
Affirmations

And this library keeps growing. When I add new resources to the Divorce Strategy Toolkit, you get them too — at no additional cost.

The Divorce Strategy Planner (Included)

The bundle also includes The Divorce Strategy Planner, a step-by-step workbook designed to help you stay organized and grounded throughout the process.

The planner includes:

Divorce timelines and legal overviews
Financial tracking worksheets and budgeting tools
Co-parenting preparation checklists
Guided reflection prompts
Safety planning tools and account inventories
Space for notes and documentation

Think of it as a personal command center for your divorce — a place to keep important details organized so you’re not carrying everything in your head.

$

97

Investment

The Divorce Strategy Toolkit

One-time purchase. Instant access. No subscriptions. No renewals.

Want guidance alongside the tools?

Some women use the Toolkit on its own. Others decide they want more support as their situation evolves.

Phoenix Rising is my ongoing coaching community for women navigating divorce.

Inside Phoenix Rising, we work through the real challenges that come up during divorce — communication with a high-conflict ex, custody decisions, legal strategy, emotional overwhelm — in real time.

Many members use the Toolkit alongside Phoenix Rising so they have both practical tools and ongoing guidance during the process.