Getting Divorced High-Conflict & Coercive Control
You may have heard it so many times. “Make a safety plan.” And every single time, the women I talk to say the same thing: okay, but what does that actually mean? In this solo episode, I’m walking you through what a safety plan actually is, why it matters, how to contact a domestic violence agency or shelter before you’re […]
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Co-Parenting & Custody High-Conflict & Coercive Control
Dr. Christine Cocchiola is back with a brand-new children’s book called Every Moment of Every Day. It’s a book for kids who are going back and forth between homes when one of those homes isn’t safe. It gives children language for what they’re feeling, and it gives protective parents a roadmap for how to support them when they come home. […]
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Getting Divorced Money, Power & Practical Systems
I’m back with a new solo episode this week, and I’m talking about something that is incredibly common, deeply complicated, and almost never talked about honestly: Living together while separated. Same house. Same kitchen. Same hallways. Maybe even the same bedroom — though if you can create different sleeping arrangements, please do. For most people, deciding the relationship is over […]
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Getting Divorced Money, Power & Practical Systems
If you own a business, or your spouse does, or you built one together, divorce just got more complicated. You may be wondering, how will divorce impact the business? I’m so glad I have returning guest Jennifer Lee to answer this and other important questions. In this episode, we get into what happens to the business you built together, what […]
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I’m re-airing one of the most powerful conversations I’ve ever had on this podcast. This is my conversation with Michelle Mays, author of The Betrayal Bind, and it is one of the most in-depth explorations I’ve done of betrayal, attachment, and the very real, very complex reasons it can feel so impossible to leave or to stay and repair when […]
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High-Conflict & Coercive Control
So much of what women contend with during divorce is really intense grief. Sometimes they don’t name it that or even realize that’s what’s happening, but that is what’s happening. Barri Leiner Grant, founder and Chief Grief Officer™ of The Memory Circle, is back with me to keep the conversation going about grieving before, during, and after divorce. For those […]
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This weekend, I’m getting married. And before you’re like, wait, what podcast am I listening to? stay with me. Because if you’ve been here a while, you know this show isn’t just about leaving. It’s about what comes after. It’s about what’s possible. So today I’m talking about what happens when you don’t settle, what healthy love actually feels like, […]
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High-Conflict & Coercive Control
I am so glad to bring Dr. Emma Katz back to the show. She is a senior lecturer in criminology at Edgehill University and one of the world’s leading experts on coercive control. She is the author of Coercive Control in Children’s and Mothers’ Lives and writes the Substack Decoding Coercive Control, where she makes this research clear to process […]
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Something I hear increasingly among my client population is the experience of burnout after divorce. And this is the thing that very few people prepare you for. You’ve made it through the hardest decision of your life. You survived the chaos of the initial separation. You got through the legal process. And then you get to the other side, expecting […]
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Imagine what it would be like to create healthy relationships without sacrificing ourselves as women. That is exactly what Michelle Farris helps women do. Michelle is a psychotherapist and codependency expert, and this conversation goes deep fast. She brings both the clinical knowledge and the lived experience of someone who has done her own recovery work, and honestly, we could […]
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