The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast Episode #212

Your Divorce Roadmap: The Stages and Phases of Divorce

Episode 212:  Your Divorce Roadmap: The Stages and Phases of Divorce

About This Episode

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After over a decade of working with thousands of women, I’ve become really good at mapping out the entire divorce process and pinpointing where on that map someone might land. I’ve become so good at it that I actually created something I’m calling The Divorce Roadmap.

In this episode, I share the three stages of the Roadmap: Awareness, Action, and Moving On, and explore the various phases within each stage. Divorce journeys are almost never linear, they ebb and flow and have hard times and times when things fall neatly into place. Knowing where you are on your journey can help you prepare for what’s to come. If, after listening to this episode, you have found yourself somewhere along the map described, I have resources for every phase and every stage. Download your free Divorce Roadmap today!

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What you’ll hear about in this episode:

  • Why what family court labels “high conflict” is very often an abuser-victim dynamic, not a mutual conflict situation (5:28)
  • How you can shift the dynamics in court by changing yourself, not by trying to change the other person or the system (11:10)
  • The High Conflict Court Risk Index, what it assesses, who it is for, and why taking it early means you can start the right conversations sooner (12:28)
  • Why an interdisciplinary divorce team saves you time, money, and unnecessary damage (24:28)
  • What to do when your high conflict court risk comes back moderate to high, and where to go for support (23:30)
  • Why protecting your kids from all harm is not the goal and how to start teaching them to navigate tricky people and tricky situations instead (31:30)

Disclaimer

The commentary and opinions available on this podcast are for informational and entertainment purposes only and not for the purpose of providing legal or psychological advice. You should contact an attorney, coach, or therapist in your state to obtain advice with respect to any particular issue or problem.

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