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February 6th, 2018

THE TRUTH OF WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A STAY-AT-HOME MOM—IF YOU GET DIVORCED

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  • The Should I Stay Or Should I Go? Program is the o The Should I Stay Or Should I Go? Program is the only online coaching program designed to help you make the right decision about your marriage...once and for all. 

This program is broken down into six modules of eye-opening, life-changing content delivered on a password-protected e-learning platform for your privacy and security. There is no other coaching program out there created by someone who’s walked this path or has such a breadth and depth of experience helping women successfully chart – and travel – the road to freedom. 

➡️ If this sounds like something you need, check out the link in my bio.
    If she were a man, would her circumstances be diff If she were a man, would her circumstances be different? Would she be able to have a successful career and be a parent? It's an easy answer. 

Serena has become the epitome of success in the world of sports, but the physical toll motherhood has taken on her body makes it impossible for her to be both a mother and athlete. The thing is, men don't ever have to think about weighing their career and parenting—and most men get ahead in their careers on the backs of women’s domestic labor. They get to be a family man and an athlete/corporate exec/whatever they want. 

Men will rarely ever be asked questions or told comments like, "Who watches your kids while you're at work?", or "Your spouse helps out at home? They deserve a trophy."

This imbalance between being a career-woman and mother doesn't just happen to the best, it happens to women everywhere—and as @serenawilliams says, it's not fair.
    Is the trope true? I talked about loving ourselve Is the trope true?

I talked about loving ourselves and others– and whether we really need one to do the other–  in my podcast episode with Dr. Akua K. Boateng. @akuakboateng is a sought-after mental health and relationship expert. With over 14 years of experience in clinical practice and education, she specializes in an integrative approach to treating anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, and other emotional concerns. 

She is the founder and CEO of Boateng Psychotherapy & Consultation, where she counsels individuals and couples as well as partners with organizations in the integration of emotionally aware practices and initiatives. Her genuine, empathic voice adds to the growing culture of mental health awareness. 

There is tons of incredible insight to be heard in this episode so don't miss out! 🎙️Catch the podcast episode at the link in my bio  and come back and let me know what you think.
    This week we’re talking about marital finances, This week we’re talking about marital finances, divorce, and how gaining clarity around your finances can help inform your decision about whether you should stay or go. Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan, founders of My Divorce Solution, join me to share some of the processes they utilize when working with clients to help them protect and secure their financial future in divorce.

Karen and Catherine combine their legal and financial expertise to provide unparalleled financial clarity and divorce preparation – resulting in easier, faster, and less expensive divorces. Our hope is that through listening to this conversation you will have more power, more knowledge, and clarity about finances and divorce. 
 
Tap the link in my bio to listen.

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    The Pillars of Abuse were identified by Annette Ol The Pillars of Abuse were identified by Annette Oltmans of @themendproject and represent what drives abusive thinking.

📍 Entitlement: The abuser feels they deserve preferential treatment that doesn’t apply to the victim. This results in a double standard, often fueled by patriarchy.

📍 Faulty Belief System: A culturally ingrained belief that influences an attitude of machismo or feeling that they have a hierarchical position in a relationship. 

📍 Image Management: The abuser works hard to portray an image to the outside that’s different from the behaviors on the inside of the relationship. This contributes to people not believing the victim.

📍 Double Abuse: When somebody doesn’t believe the victim or judges the victim, whether an individual in their life or in an institutional setting. This results in preferential treatment being given to the abuser.

I got to speak about covert emotional abuse with philanthropist and passionate human rights advocate, Annette Oltmans. Annette helps bring awareness to covert emotional abuse, a dangerous and common form of Domestic Violence. If you are a victim or think you might be a victim, this is a must-listen episode. Listen at the link in my bio.
    When your life is turned upside down by divorce, i When your life is turned upside down by divorce, it can be so hard to think clearly.

It feels like there are millions of things to untangle and sort through, and each one is swirling through your mind fighting for your attention. And in the midst of all that chaos is the most important decision you’ll have to make: your parenting plan.

There are some big questions to think about, including: 
✔️What is shared parenting, exactly?
✔️How do you determine the best parenting plan for YOUR life?
✔️Why is shared parenting better for mothers?
✔️When you shouldn’t fight for equal shared parenting time?

I know there’s a lot to consider. I know it feels overwhelming. I know you desperately want to just make the right decision for yourself and your kids. 

Just remember to BREATHE and take advantage of resources that can help you along the way. 

Find the answers to these questions and more on my blog, at the link in my bio.
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