Episode 16: The Power of Personal Responsibility

In this solo episode, I talk about coming out of a pretty dark depression, and then move on to how taking personal responsibility can be the most empowering thing you can do for yourself, your marriage, and your divorce.

I tell the story of when I was in nursery school and was told to apologize and literally couldn’t, do a pretty amazing impression of my mom, and tell a really personal story about what having been molested as a child taught me about personal responsibility and growth.


Mentioned in this episode:

The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You by Elaine N. Aron

The Madwoman in the Volvo: My Year of Raging Hormones by Sandra Tsing Loh

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