It seems like it should be an easy sell—what co-parent hasn’t wished for a solution that makes co-parenting easier? Co-parenting apps help divorced or separated parents co-parent more effectively and efficiently—and with less conflict. That’s something everyone wants. Still, some co-parents resist the idea. But they have some fair questions. I’ve unearthed the top 5 reasons reluctant co-parents bring up […]
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Communication Divorce Motherhood
When your life is turned upside down by divorce, it can be so hard to think clearly. It feels like there are millions of things to untangle and sort through, and each one is swirling through your mind fighting for your attention. And in the midst of all that chaos is the most important decision you’ll have to make: your […]
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Yep. I’m going there…Talking about betrayal can feel — well, taboo as hell. That’s because it’s typically been shoved under the rug.But the experience is so universal, right?! As a collective, why aren’t we talking about this more openly?Thankfully, there are voices out there working hard to destigmatize betrayal recovery and empower countless women along the way. Gilza Fort Martinez is […]
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I’m just gonna go ahead and say it…There are a lot of bad therapists out there.Think about it — almost anyone can obtain a license in a therapy program (as long as they have the money to shell out for one).And yet, we’re eagerly placing our mental health in their hands. We’re sharing our most vulnerable moments with these people […]
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What do you do if your spouse won’t go to therapy, you’re not ready to be done, but you need to make some changes to your relationship if it’s going to have any shot of lasting?Can you work on things on your own?I recently spoke with a client whose husband had a very legitimate trauma stemming from being forced into […]
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Whether you made this decision or it was made for you, here you are. So what do you do now? Lawyer up, right? 🙅🏼♀️ Wrong 🙅🏼♀️ “Lawyer up” is the most dangerous advice you can take from anyone, especially someone who doesn’t know the ins and outs of your specific marriage and divorce. As soon as you “lawyer up” you […]
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Telling your husband you want a divorce is undoubtedly the hardest thing you’ve ever had to do, and getting it right can set the tone for your entire divorce process.Getting it wrong can add layers of toxicity that could take years to clean up.The most important thing for you to know at this juncture is that this is not a […]
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Well, isn’t this a pickle? There’s a fucking pandemic just as you’re trying to figure out whether to stay or go, or have made the decision to go, and suddenly all your plans are up in smoke and you’re not quite sure WHAT THE FUCK TO DO. Join the club, mama. My ex and I are in deep negotiations about […]
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Mother’s Day can be a big fat joke for many moms. There are usually a slew of complaints, from “I have to do all the work” to “my kids just whine and cry all day.” But what I hear over and over again in the community of divorced moms I work with is that their exes don’t do a good […]
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After our split, my ex and I had some big decisions to make, chief among them, who was going to keep the house. Rather than make a sudden move and make our son transition multiple times we decided to stay in the house together-but-separated until we could figure out the logistics of who was going to stay and who was […]
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