August 15th, 2024
Episode 285: Weaponizing Neurodivergence in Abusive Relationships with Zawn Villines (Neurodivergence in Relationships)
Zawn Villines, feminist activist and writer, is back on the show! Together we tackle the offensive and ableist ways that neurodiversity is often used to excuse abusive behavior. Zawn makes it clear that being neurodivergent does not mean someone is inherently abusive. In fact, neurodivergent individuals are more often the victims rather than the perpetrators of abuse.
In this episode, we dive into the myths around empathy deficits in autistic individuals and how patriarchy keeps these harmful misconceptions alive. Further, we explore how patriarchy weaponizes neurodivergence against women. This episode is packed with practical advice for women dealing with neurodivergent partners, focusing on finding fair and supportive ways to navigate relationships without sacrificing your well-being.
Featured topics:
- Neurodivergence is not a pass for getting out of household labor (5:12)
- Patriarchy and the weaponization of neurodivergence against women (15:22)
- What women can do when faced with a partner using neurodivergence as an excuse (40:05)
- You can accommodate a partner without sacrificing your life and well-being at the altar of their neurodivergence (41:53)