Recently in my Facebook Group for women deciding if they should stay or go in their marriage, I asked the members to share their most burning questions about divorce. And I received an overwhelming response. The topics ranged from, “How can I leave my marriage if I have no emotional support and can’t support myself financially?” to “What do I do if I don’t have the courage to leave him?”
And, every single topic or question had an underlying theme, all relating to doing work on yourself first.
When you are making a decision to leave your marriage, you’re making a decision of great love for yourself and for your children. That power needs to carry you through to the other side.
When you do the self-work, you can come from a place of neutrality, process your emotions, and grieve what needs grieving.
You can work hard to bring yourself to a place of calm, peace, and lack of blame or resentment so you can make difficult choices. Without focusing on self-work first, the choices you have to make will be much harder (and trust me, they are hard enough as it is).
In this episode I go over some of the topics the women in my Facebook group mentioned (btw, join us!). Plus, I share how you can become deeply rooted in your own sense of power.
Here are just a few of the topics I touch on in this episode:
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Getting rooted into your deepest power and grounded in your confidence
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How to start fresh on your own when you’ve never been on your own before
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Knowing you are worthy and you are enough
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ROOTED LIVE is coming! If you think you might want out of your marriage, but you can’t seem to find the courage to make a decision once and for all, and you’re scared you won’t have the strength to get through all that comes after you say those four words,”I want a divorce,” then ROOTED is 100% for you.
ROOTED is my online coaching program which I will be taking LIVE in February. It’s designed to help you FIND YOUR STRENGTH, BUILD YOUR CONFIDENCE, AND STEP INTO YOUR POWER. Learn more here.